This week has been incredibly difficult. A progressively sore throat led to me getting tested for covid. The results came back and I’m all clear, and as of today my throat is feeling better, but the entire thing weighed on me and wore me down.
Sunday the girl came back. I was caught somewhere between anger and terror of getting hurt again. Mostly she cried while I held her. I had cried the week before, a mess of unflattering gasps and sobs while clinging to daddy like a lifeline. So it came to be it was my turn to do so for her. I stroked her hair and told her it was ok while I watched the woman I love break again and again.
Conversations were often. Sometimes they felt like endless spirals with no clear resolution. She is trying her best to learn to share me. I am trying my best to let go of my hurt for how she kept it all to herself and ran from me.
Wednesday comes and it’s time for her to go back to her place. Before she does I’m finally feeling well enough to make love to her. I need this as much as she does, even though my head tells me I’ll just get hurt again. I ignore it and gaze down at her as we become one.
For once it’s not me crying from emotional sex. This relationship has found me looking at myself in another person in so many ways. I hold her while she breaks yet again. I tell her she is safe, that I have her, that I love her, and then we  dissolve in to the flames of the passion we make.
We walk her to the bus. Daddy alternates between walking behind or in front of us while I hold her hand. She says she will come back Sunday. She says she is going to fight to make it work because of how hard I did to keep her. She says no one has done that for her before.
I hold her tight before I let her go. I watch how she says goodbye to the dog and to daddy and I’m filled with panic that this could be it again. Yet, I don’t let it show. I hug her and tell her I love her, take N’s hand and walk away.
I ask him if he thinks it feels as awful for her as it does me to do this. I already know the answer. But I’m talking to keep myself out of my head. In there all there is are whispers about how it’s done. I don’t want to give them my time. So I babble as we walk.
When we get home I have a drink on the deck. I think how it’s nice, but different. That she is on a bus to a place where she will clock her time. I hope while there she will start the internal heavy lifting. I believe in her, but the fear of what if keeps singing a different siren song.
Wanting out of my head I text my friend and we go for a drive. I tell her I’m stretched thin. I tell her I love them both. I tell her how if I had met A before N things would be different. She listens and we drink coffee and eat doughnuts in the dark of a parking lot.
When I get home it’s late, but I’m not ready to sleep. I put on a series I’ve seen a few times that N hasn’t to fill time. I enjoy watching it with him, and yet my head never lets me be. She should be here it taunts.
I remind myself again and again that this is what’s needed for us to try. I tell myself this is far less of a sacrifice then the one where I have to let her go. Eventually I head to bed. All I can hear is her voice telling me everything is either yours and his or all of ours, but we don’t have a place of our own.
In bed me and daddy are intimate. It’s nice, it’s better now without the stress of his job. He calls me his good girl and it’s everything in me not to  dissolve in to tears. I had called her that only hours before, when she was inside of me.
And suddenly I feel like a awful human. I feel like I’m cheating on her, even though I know I’m not. I feel like I’m slinking around behind her back and doing something wrong.
He picks up on my sudden retreat in to myself and asks me what’s wrong. I hold back tears as I tell him how I feel like I’m doing something wrong, how I want to fix everything, how it was easier for me to be with others when we were all together or when it didn’t hurt them for me to do so.
Eventually I fall asleep wrapped around her pillow with him wrapped around me, my hand petting mr snuggly bear, a pink teddy she got me for Mother’s Day,
It’s been a rough go, I’ve never felt like this before when it comes to polly. I’ve never seen it cause someone so much pain. She tells me she loves me, that If it were only us it would be ok, and there are moments where I wish time had been different. But then he brushes my hair, or makes me laugh and I know I couldn’t change it. I know she doesn’t really want me to be anything then who I am. But when I see who I am hurt her, it gives the gremlins in my head a field day. Suddenly they are picking me apart for all the things about me I can’t change and laughing that it could cost me her.
All I can do is be honest. I love them both, and so in this situation I have a live in partner, I used to have two. Now my full time submissive comes a few days a week, and leaves for a few because being around me and him tortured her. I don’t know how to fix it, and as her keeper I feel useless and Ill equip. I remind myself to breathe and take it day by day.